The first time Angie became pregnant and learned that the baby was a girl, she and her husband were merely disappointed. They had planned on having a second child anyway. When she learned she was pregnant with a girl again, though, the couple considered an abortion.As if this wasn’t bad enough, cultural relativists who profit from cultural biases against girl aren’t helping.
Their doctor argued against terminating the second pregnancy, they said. The couple reluctantly agreed to try for a third child.
“Our theory was that to raise kids, it’s tough already, so we didn’t want too many,” Rick recalled.
They explored various forms of sex selection, which could cost $15,000 or more, but they feared that because Angie was so fertile, the process would result in multiple births. She became pregnant a third time naturally. The couple were delighted to learn they were finally having a boy.
“If the third one was going to be a girl, then I would say probably I would have terminated,” Angie said.
“The patients come in and they all think they owe me an excuse, but the bottom line is it’s cultural,” said Dr. Jeffrey Steinberg, medical director of the Fertility Institutes, a California clinic that began sex-selection procedures in New York in March.
The Fertility Institutes, which does not offer abortions, has unabashedly advertised its services in Indian- and Chinese-language newspapers in the United States.
“Culturally, there are a lot of strange things that go on in the world,” Dr. Steinberg said. “Whether we agree with it, it’s not harming anyone.”