What's more patronizing?

1.) Saying that some women regret their abortions or 2.) claiming that saying some women regret their abortions is patronizing.

Here's Patterico on Jeffrey Toobin's claim that "some women come to regret their choice to abort" is a "patronizing notion."

Maybe I have found the only women who regret their decision, among the tens of millions of abortions that have occurred since Roe v. Wade was handed down. I rather suspect there are more — several hundred thousand more, if not millions. But I can't prove that.

So no, Mr. Toobin, I have no "scientifically respectable support" for Justice Kennedy's "patronizing notion" that "some" women regret their abortions. All I have is quotes from actual women themselves.