I often hear the saying that abortion is all about what a woman wants to do with her body but what happens when abortion is actually what the boyfriend wants her do?
"I don't really have an update yet. I have another abortion appointment scheduled for Saturday at the urging of my boyfriend. I really don't want to go through with it. I have gone back and forth with my moral issues for weeks now. I am now about 8 weeks lmp. If I don't get it done this weekend, I won't be able to get the manual aspiration... and I really don't want the vacuum surgery. I think the vacuum would have more of a psychological impact on me. As more time goes by the moral implications weigh more and more heavily on me. But how do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to go through with it? He'll be devastated and I don't want to risk losing him. Still not sure what to do. Any advice?"